Thunk between the eyes.

[ysobelle]

See, I used to think I was easy to get along with. That I was a rational, fairly insightful woman, and I never pulled that girly "I'm FINE" crap. Which I still don't. But.

Along with all the rest of the radical changes in my self-view, I'm now doubting all of the above. Am I rational? Am I easy to get along with? Or am I, without knowing it, someone some guy somewhere will eventually call, "That crazy bitch"?

I have to get back to trusting myself. Oh, dear. Well! This has certainly been a year, hasn't it?

Comments

[hughcasey.livejournal.com]

Are you a rational woman, or "That Crazy Bitch"? Yes. And I don't mean that to be flippant... we each contain multitudes. MOST days, you'll be the first. On the occasional day, you might be the second. And you'll be many, many more things throughout your life.

But no matter what you are on any given day, you will always be YOU... Nikki... and YOU are pretty darned wonderful, m'dear. *HUG*

[celtic_maenad]

I found you a bouncy & rational individual. What you are just doesn't rule out some asshole deciding it's not him it's you and you're all of a sudden "that crazy bitch" in his mind. That doesn't make that asshole RIGHT, just an ass.

*hugs*

[mseuphrates.livejournal.com]

EVERYONE is someone's "crazy bitch" - doesn't matter how rational you try to be, someone else's irrationality will brand you as such.
Just ask my ex-girlfriend about me. Dare ya. :)

Love you for you, and those who ALSO love you for you will rise to the top of the barrel, skim off the cream, and leave the dregs behind.

I don't know about her advice,

[irishcoyote.livejournal.com]

after all, she's dating me. :)
But I second it.
You're an incredible woman.