well things are rocky right now because he's said some things to her that led her to say those things to me. So event planning is on hold for the time being, but not off completely. Yet. Tired of being Miss Serial Monogamist of the Century, but not a doormat to avoid it, either.
Philcon was part my being really sick, and part of being really sick was this person's behavior. It's been going on for about a month now. I'm hoping when I get home I can put an end to it completely for good, but since she's Dean's friend I suspect there's no way to do this cleanly.
Christ on toast. And you're not allowed to beat anyone. Sigh. I will say, though, that this is one game no one wins. She certainly doesn't. Honestly? Ignore her. Really. Get straight with Dean, of course-- he shouldn't be talking behind your back-- and ignore her idiocy. It doesn't matter worth a damn what she does or says if you two are fine with each other. And refusing to engage with her gives you the high road, and makes her look, well, slightly desperate.
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Date: 2007-11-24 11:43 pm (UTC)Now if I could just get the object of the Godwin to STFU I'd be in a world of nirvana right now.
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Date: 2007-11-24 11:46 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-11-24 11:53 pm (UTC)If you didn't see the original, let me know and I'll email it.
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Date: 2007-11-25 12:01 am (UTC)And oh, for fuck's sake. Look, as long as things are okay with him, you win. And that's the bottom line.
Which reminds me: how's the event planning going? Missed you at Philcon!
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Date: 2007-11-25 12:09 am (UTC)Philcon was part my being really sick, and part of being really sick was this person's behavior. It's been going on for about a month now. I'm hoping when I get home I can put an end to it completely for good, but since she's Dean's friend I suspect there's no way to do this cleanly.
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Date: 2007-11-25 12:27 am (UTC)Christ on toast. And you're not allowed to beat anyone. Sigh. I will say, though, that this is one game no one wins. She certainly doesn't. Honestly? Ignore her. Really. Get straight with Dean, of course-- he shouldn't be talking behind your back-- and ignore her idiocy. It doesn't matter worth a damn what she does or says if you two are fine with each other. And refusing to engage with her gives you the high road, and makes her look, well, slightly desperate.
I'll delete these, if you like.